It is true that everyone who triangles with our existing relationships comes with a purpose. They could threaten to destroy the foundations we have built. But, sometimes they could also make us even stronger in our relationships.
I believe that a third party getting its way into our seemingly steadfast and healthy relationship can be one of the most conclusive tests on our integrity and faithfulness to our partners.
Most of the time these intrusions serve as interesting options to our boring routines. They grant a new change to an old lifestyle. And it becomes even more interesting because stolen moments with someone you like other than your partner are often exciting and offer the challenge on how to be together, discreetly and unnoticed.
After all, deep in our heart there could still be smoking remnants of love glowing for our partner . Fond feelings that are waiting to be reciprocated and memories wishing to be rekindled. But when our feelings get in the way of rational thinking and when reality is tainted by the past then you might find yourself longing and wishing again.
We all fall in love and sometimes we are tempted to fall for the wrong person. Let us remember that loving isn’t a sin. It is when love goes beyond discernment and when we follow the irrational dictates of our hearts that make us sin. It is when we begin to want that we lose, when we desire that we get frustrated, it is when we hurt the feelings of others that we fall and hurt ourselves.
I hope that BLUE color will stand not for sadness but for hope that one day we can find the love we can keep and last for a lifetime.
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